Men and Counselling ; Why it is Good for You
Every man has the ultimate goal of being the man. Nothing gives more satisfaction than breaking a leg figuratively at work. Receiving endless compliments for a job well done from collegues, friends and family or smashing the glass ceiling with that business you’ve being building. Feeling appreciated by your own close family. It becoming clear to all around you that you are the man of means and they’d better acknowledge or not at all but that’s more like it. Then your thoughts are actually cut off and the reality you are living in sets in. The good things is, you can turn things around and the magic word is none other than counselling.
Everything you know about being a man goes like you can cry, men don’t do that, keep your problems to yourself that’s the real man way until life hands you mixed results with an A for anxiety and S for stress. Lucky for you, someone decided enough was enough and you deserved your own space to just be you without all folks standing in line to offer their two cents. Counselling came to help you offload your baggage so you can plan how better to carry it by first of all being free from it and getting in touch with you.
Once the junk is out your brain goes on to focus on what needs your immediate attention. Rome wasn’t built in a day and expecting to run the world is all a fantasy but if you are doing just great things around you will catch the vibe and start falling in place. In a perfect world ,worry wouldn’t exist and everything would be just great. The terrible news is that it actually very much exist, counseling helps you know how to manage it and if possible use it to get you where you need to go , suppress it when it threatens to take over. Kill stress and anxiety before they do it to you first.
Communication is much less what you say and everything to do with how you say it. The aim of counselling is to provide you with the tools to allow you pass whatever message you want without coming out on the wrong side of the divide. That is very much progress. To keep you on pedestal , counselling equips you with much needed resources to help you stay on course. The change soon start to be visible and questions get asked whereby letting people in on your little secret becomes your choice. Counselling may not be everything but it can be quite something.
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